Experience Through Travelling...旅游

My Fren Pass Away this Morning

2009-04-05T10:26:00.001+08:00

Wish her Go to Peaceful Place

Sadness Visit

2009-03-05T22:42:00.002+08:00

Since long time i didnt taste the tear drop and hold it in my eye and crying inside heart....... The sadness visit in this evening make my mood drop till the bottom.

Driving along the way to the hospital university. This is different feeling with normal day due to i go to visit my neighbour" relationship seem like my sister". i remember last 2 visit to hospital is a happiness but this time i feel scare and reluctant to accept the reality coz i visit a cancer patient.

I steped in the door and she cant recognised me. She told me she easy forget memory recently. I told her my nickname. She smile and remember back me. i felt surprised that her look change a lot due to the cancer make her suffering. When the time we talked together, she start headache and complaining the head so pain. At that moment, i feel my self cant help her anything, i m really dont know what to do. Console her ?

When her boy friend away for awhile, she talked to me why she become like this? she told me she is very suffering because her family worry her and her family need to take care of her. She told me she want to be in normal life but she felt that she cant control her life and fate of life. When the time she talked to you, i was really wanna tear drop and cry ..... coz i cant answer her... i hold her hand.... i hold her hand tiely..... luckily i didnt cry coz i know if i cry she will cry too...... what for i come to visit her and make her cry. i should comfort her and make her happy....

After a while, i changed my topic and talked about travelling. she likes to travel as me. i told her i will go to travel to Shanghai in September and detail of the trip. besides that, i told her some stories for my KK 4 years study there. I tried to comfort her feeling and advised to do chanting in normal time. She told me not easy to chanting coz her painful make her cant concentrate chanting. i hold her hand and let her feel my warm and i m supporting her. She also tiely my hand and told me take care myself. The moment when a patient ask u to take care ..... how is my feeling ? my eye become red colour and tear around my eye......

Suddenly myself feel hard to voice out coz once i voice out the sound is crying sound..... The painful she suffering i think normal people like us is hard to imagine... she said she want to cry due to the painful from her head.

I dont like to experience the close relationship people leave me and see them suffering and i cant do anything about that. I m a person so greedy about that. I want all love surrounding me forever. I scare it will lose in 1 day. Like my 1st love broke up, i need to spend 1 year plus to recover my sadness. i know it is not right to have this attitude.

No matter how she will become to.... Mui Har ..... i will hold ur hand and support u ...... U r like my sister..... i m really the darkness sky change to rainbow sky......... The life is not just sick and sad...

Regards
Ken

Life So Uncertainty .....Cancer

2009-03-04T22:47:00.003+08:00

I grow up in chinese new village. Since i was young, i used to be mix around with my neighbour playing those kind funny games such as "抓豹虎”， “放风筝”，“打羽毛球”，“煮菜”和“钓鱼”。Those happy moment still in my mind. My close childhoodmates is older than me 4 years. He is the guy most close with me even we were different age. Since primary school i alway went to his house and spent whole day with him for weekend. my neighbour seem like second house. I remember deeply that we went to pasar malam every saturday. Saturday is a most happy day i waiting for in whole week. We went to pasar malam bought foods to eat and sometimes will went to his friend house to chit chat. Those time i was young still not popular with mamak store.

Time pass so fast, when i was form 2, he fell sick brain cancer. I knew that brain cancer make him so suffering. He is a one of among strong person i ever see. As we know cancer treatment is a very painful treatment for human. I have accompany him pass through all the time for treatment and in hospital. i have NEVER see him cry or complaining the painful treatment. I dont know whether we grow up in a poor family, poor family maybe teach us lesson must TAHAN bitter. Life so uncertainty, he was 20 years old young guy need to face the most difficulty in his life. He was a wise spend person, he didnt like to spend money with not neccessary. He always told me and remind me spend wisely. I still remember. he told me " please finish ur dishes, coz african cant even have chance to eat." He alway think his family 1st, he didnt want to burden his family coz of his sick. What i can say....... Such a good guy and alway think family 1st. Why he had to suffer this sick ...... life uncertainty .... He did a twice operation but the cancer spread and grow back in his brain. Finally he lose this battle but i know he was a Hero coz he did a lot of things that i can remember and even i have practice now...... Wei Keng , Even time pass 12 years, i still remember u.

Mui Har, is like my sister. She is older than me 5 years, she is Wei Keng sister. Why god have to make their family member to get horrible Cancer. last 2 years, she is fligthing battle with cancer until now. In this 2 years, when i have chance meet her, i wont dare to ask about her condition. I will talk about travel and myself. She like to travel same as me " backapacker". Recently i saw her condition become weaker and weaker. i really feel very sad how come a gal planning to marry with her boy friend. Now everything is uncertainty for her, she didnt did any wrong things. she likes to do charity work too. I heard this evening she admitted hospital, she didnt eat anything this 2 days..... i Feel WORRY and really hope she can recover back. Coz she has promised me she and her boy friend will go to Gunung Ledang with me. We have a chance to backpack travel. Dont Give Up Mui Har...... u need to be strong enough to pass through ur critical path. A lot happiness waiting for u. U told me u wanna be a volunteer for buddish organisation. This wish will come so soon for u. I tell u, this a article i dedicate to u. i know u dont even know this blog. My tear drop coz i treat u as my sister.... Mui Har u told me i m like u brother. yes i m ..... Sister... please be strong enough..... i will pray for u ..... Amitabha

Still Learning Stage in Life Circle

2009-01-12T22:10:00.003+08:00

Everyday we are learning how to live more meaningful and achieve the higher stage in our life. Life can be various type of defination. The important point is we should have a balancing point in my life.

Nowaday the society become more materialistic, people just look the luxury car and and branded stuffs. Actually the the brightness place there is still have a hiden darkness street. Public may ignore the a group of helpless people in the society. Old Folk house is a place public usually forgotten. Old Folk is a group of people experience the age we are now, they have contribute their energy to the country. unfortunately, in the elder age, they are unable to find the sustenance and get illness. their body not allow them to carry out their job.

Old Folk house is the place for old folk to pass their the rest of their life. Last week, we went the old folk house in 广东义山. We Collect the money from among of our kindness in charity activitys' frens. In economic crisis and chinese new year coming soon, we still able to collect the quite a good amount to run our activity. We are quite lucky and happy to have friends like that. Share our happiness and help the those unfortunately people in the society.

When we reach to the old folk house, we met a group of volunteers were carryout their job in the olf folk house. We saw around 20 people of them split into a few subgroup to carryout their works such as cleaning the floor, prepare lunch for old folk, cleaning the bed, help old folk to bath, barber for old folk, arranging the stocks in the store ( foods ) and checking old folk body. We were there feel guitly due to we unable to coorperate with them to help old folk. The person in charge in the old folk house told us this group volunteers are very kindness and show their big love. They come to old folk house every sunday no matter any special day fall into that day. They come to the old folk house just bring the love to the old folk and hope to share happy to the old folk. Their intention is very pure and beauty. One of their team member come to talk to us in the old folk house. He got share with us a sentence with very meaningful" Today we help people, Tomorrow we may need people to help us. life is uncertain. life is not just sleep, wake up, working, or entertainment. there is somethings out there we can do it ."

I m so imprised by this group of volunteers. thanks for enlightenment my life.... the world with ur kindness heart, the darkness place will change to brightness place. the cooling place will change to warmness place....

Because of u, we can see the greatness of love.....

Regards

ken

Thanks for everyone who contributed their money and heart to this activity. Amitabha

Title is no Title

2009-01-11T23:28:00.003+08:00

Quite long time i didnt update my blog. tonight feel that need to response to my supportive friends. New Year is reaching to us, i would like to wish everybody happy new year. Seem like the wishes as usual. wish or no wish is no different.... am i right? even though i wish everybody "发财”。。。Do u think everyone will rich like pig head?

Cow year starting seem like hardcore for everyone due to economic crisis. Malaysia electronic field pay cut, retrenchment, and compulsory take leave. Chinese New Year coming soon, some companies still got good profit for last year but boss will take advantage from that economic crisis reason for no Bonus....... Boss got right to do that but the way treat staffs is not proper way. As we know Chinese New Year we need spend a lot money for preparing big days......

Haih .... Life is uncertain... Cherish the good time and taste the bad time too...

Wisely Spend Year

Regards

Ken

朋友的聚会

2008-12-29T21:32:00.002+08:00

酒是需要久的时间来陈年，越久的时间就越好的品质。朋友的友谊也是可以运用在酒的品质。离开中学约有十个年头，由中学大家都是一起念书，有时候大家一起去补习中心上课，有时候一起去逛逛街和看场肥皂剧电影。所有的回忆都是开心，以前的不开心的事情现在想起都觉得用一笑而过来带过。以前的看不开的事情和看的很重的事情都觉得只是生活的一部分。

现在的我觉得自己都很珍惜身边的朋友。尤其是中学的朋友，有的朋友中学时候并没有什么交情但是反而离开中学好几年而刚巧遇回然后就重新再度联络在一起，比起以前更加多话题和感情更加深厚。也许以前的大家都有不同的看法和意见，当大家在社会工作了一段日子，思想和意见也改变了。我们不可以说是变的好或不好，而是大家在社会工作的环境下而改变来适应工作。

今天的短短2 小时的聚会我觉得大家都很用心来交换心得和很开心的分享一些喜悦的事情。友情是珍贵。。。。尤其是我刚刚知道我的朋友有心理问题因为自己很少朋友而碰到一些问题而造成自己有心理问题。。。。

慧雁和嘉欣：很高兴与你们共聚在一起。记得从新洲回来时，一定要yam cha。。。呵呵

三号妈咪

2008-12-21T22:13:00.002+08:00

最近接到很多粉红炸弹（结婚请帖）只是十二月份我已经收到4 份请帖。那已经是提示我，我的年龄开始要想人的终生问题。自己想还是单身还有很多东西还没做，还有很多地方还没去，单身就方便做到的。但是很多事情都是缘份。。。。

最令我难忘的结婚典礼是我的朋友“陈威钿”莫属。当天婚礼我是其中一个best man 兄弟，我们觉得结婚新郎和新娘都是配角，因为当天有一位“奇人异事= 大妗公”大闹了一整天。。。。。

大妗公并不是普通的大妗姐，他会Rapping 和Hit Hop。他会黄明志的麻坡情歌。。。。但是我们都不喜欢他。。。。。。

早上的时候我们觉得这“大妗公”很好笑，因为他用rap 来念出所有的好意头的话。但是噢。。。他有点过火，他的动作有点GAY GAY的感觉。他喜欢摸男孩，还有吻男孩。

重点在晚上，我的朋友就和他打了交道。他那晚就完了，大妗公用他那GAYGAY的表情在台上表演然后就到台下拉我的朋友上台跳一支情侣舞。当中Gay佬逼我朋友用手抱他，但是并没抱到然后两人倒在地上。所有的客人都看了一场娱乐show ，我朋友就面都红了。之后，他又到来我们兄弟们的桌上爬到我一位高大威猛的朋友身上摇摇欲垂，那三级的动作令人反胃。

我们的食物都满满的在桌上，因为为了避开那Gay佬免得他骚扰我们。

在晚餐之后，我们朋友都去喝茶和谈起这Gay佬，以后谁请他做大妗公我们就不去参加。。boycott......

一千年以后。。。

2008-12-21T21:07:00.002+08:00

今天（12 月21 日），农历是冬至。冬至大过年，我祝大家冬至快乐。。。。一大早，我和中学朋友去探望老朋友在巴生。。。从KL 到巴生真的很远，大约要45 分钟，但是今天我们有重要是要办。。。。这位老朋友我们已经有7年没见了，但是最近听朋友打听下他的近况有点不对劲。我们就觉得不如乘这次机会拜访他。

当我们第一眼见到他的时候，我们就察觉到他有点不妥，他的眼神看我们的时候是呆呆的和他一直用呆呆的眼神望着你，令我们有一种不安的感觉。我们都用平常心来跟他谈天。当我们问到他发生什么事情。他就问我们“人可以活到一千岁吗？人是怎么来的呢？我有点想死。。。。”

大家都心里有数，我们的朋友真的碰到了一些事情。我们都用不同的方式来探试到底他发生了什么问题，到最后我们知道他的问题是与宗教有关。原来他接触了一种宗教而开始改变了他的人生和思想。而那宗教提倡人可以永生或是可以到一千岁。。。。

我们都想了一些可以帮到他的方法，就是带他到宗教中心好让他能恢复他的正确的思想。

我以为这种事情不会在我的生活上遇到，但是我的朋友就很不幸的遇上。宗教是一种心灵的寄托，我们人生所遇到的挫折，宗教都会帮助我们向好的方面去想和去做。为什么有些宗教的教义是让人悲观和违反人生的道理。。。。

人可以活到一千岁吗？人是怎么来的呢？重要吗？

生老病死是一种定义，每个人都要经历。活到一千岁你真的愿意吗？你会开心吗？

狗狗的故事

2008-11-30T21:50:00.003+08:00

今天陪妈妈从巴刹走路回家的时候，差不多到家20 m 。我和妈妈都看到一只母狗的嘴巴涎着一只小狗的尸体，然后放在我邻居的家门口。我就以为那只母狗咬死一只小狗而拿来玩玩。。。我的邻居就把那只小狗丢到附近的垃圾场。。。。我认为这件事已经完了。。。。当我下午跟我的老友在附近的old town kopitiam 回到家。妈妈就跟告诉我“刚才那只母狗哦，涎着那只小狗的尸体到另外一家的邻居家门口。”我就答了一句“哦”！！妈妈继续讲“那小狗的尸体发臭的很，那印尼妹又把它丢到垃圾堆去。”那时候我就开始想那只小狗一定是那只母狗生的。。那晚上的时候，我的朋友又约我去吃晚餐，当他送我到家的时候我又看到那只母狗和小狗的尸体在我家大门。。。我就嗅到很臭的味道，我就赶快去把它丢到远远的垃圾堆。。。怎么知道那只母狗又一次的去找回它的孩子。。。。。我就在想为什么人可以那么狠心丢掉他们的孩子，而那只母狗知道那只小狗已经死了还要坚持守在它的身旁。。。连动物的母爱都那么伟大，那我们呢？不可以连动物都不如。。。。珍惜身边爱我们的人，以行动来爱惜他们。因为有爱世界会发光茫。

Bangkok 曼谷Kanchanaburi 北碧

2008-11-17T23:19:00.006+08:00

Bangkok Trip “泰好玩”

在曼谷旅行的时候刚好碰到反政府人士到国会举行示威行动。在出发之前，我的团员也在犹豫着这次旅行是否要告吹。。。。在我的努力解释之下，团友终于决定一起启程。。。“曼谷我爱您”。。。。在这整整一个星期的旅程，你看那Police Lorry 在那里动都不动就知道“Bo Boon Teh " 真的吓死我嚒！！！！！！！ Grand Palace 是一个高度受欢迎的旅游胜地。。。。那马来西亚的皇宫呢？有两匹马和兵士站在大门不能让游客进去。。。。。那是真的让我很迷惑，为什么大马旅游社还可以带团到这里。。没有感到不对劲吗？没有更好的选择吗？

这张照片我很喜欢。。。黑白的颜色给我的感觉是很简单和让照片呈现的更有内涵。。。。一排排的柱子与壁画相对让人感到有一种很整齐和一种层次感。。。。。人生也可以如照片一样单纯。。。。

天气真的热到。。。。。。死。。。。。泰国的天气就像他泰国人民那么热情。。。。。。。在那绿油油的草地上和那宏伟的建筑物。。。。我们仿佛在西方国家。。。。不要发梦。。。这是泰国的著名佛庙。。。。。。但是当天真的热到。。。。。。。。。"吾嘚頂”。。。“飊冷汗”啊。。。。。

庄严的佛陀每次当我遇到的时候我都会放下当下的意念。。。诚心的礼佛。。。。。阿弥陀佛。。愿众生都找到人生的真谛。。。。。。。。。

在夕阳下的佛庙，让佛庙反射出更加庄严和神圣。。。。。。。。。。无论什么宗教和信仰，我们都要有一颗善良的心去帮助这社会因为这社会需要我们这一群有心人帮忙。。。。。。。。。

在繁忙的都市里，所有人都为他们的三餐而忙碌。。。。。。。想起在曼谷的街上遇到一个小女孩穿着有一点脏脏的衣服在为家人看担子。。。。自己一个小女孩在街上买东西。。。看上去不到12 岁但是很懂事。。。在这里大部分的孩子都很幸福，很容易可以得到想要的东西。。。真的很大的差别。。。也许是环境的问题。。。。我自己也在7-Eleven 买了一瓶饮品给他喝。自己也有点感触。。。。那是一种人生的体验。。。。希望她也可以像其他小孩一起上学。。。

细腻的手工和艺术的情操让这由一种铁质成分物质而形成了艺术品。。。。。。当地人的艺术天分和对艺术的热爱往往产生的作品都是令人很惊讶。。。。。男女的Pose 把我深深地吸引着。。那种烂漫的情怀一一的展现。。。。

普通的T-Shirt 但是特别的创意令我打开了眼界。。。。。那种少年少女情怀都在这一件T-Shirt 里。。。。就算是买来做纪念也是不错。。。。但是我没买。。。。。哈哈

灯饰的装饰是一门高深的学问。。。。。。也许一些便宜的灯饰都能为你的空间展现出非同凡响的效果。。。。。。

Vietnam Trip 2008

2008-11-07T23:08:00.005+08:00

脚踏车的经历

Morning View from Halong Bay

越南小女孩

越南咖啡-难以形容的美味可口

Laksi和河粉-美味极了

越南的交通。。。

下龙湾-Halong Bay

Halong Bay - World Heritage ( 水上桂林）

Vietnam Trip introduction

Venue: Hanoi , Halong BaY, Tam Coc

Weather : 18-23 Degree Celcius

Team Members : 4 persons

Budget : RM1300-1500 ( All in )

越南历史

1867年，法国占领了整个越南南部，越南变成为法国的殖民地。在第二世界大战期间，胡志明领导人民军队对法国作出发抗。1945 年，胡志明宣布越南正式独立，并与法国军发生严重的冲突。

1954年，当法国与越南冲突到白热化，美国介入越战后，越南与法国便达成协议，越南从此分为南越与北越。1975年美国全面对越南撤军，但是1978年柬越战争爆发，这场战争前后一共维持了将近十年的光阴，最终有联合国的调合下两国终於达成协议，越南正式在1989年全面从柬埔寨撤军。

1999年越南政府和美国签署了贸易协定。战后越南经济逐渐复苏，相信不久将来越南会掀起一股亚洲新势力。

越南文化背景

越南妇女都是有一份刻苦耐劳，走进社会取代男性工作，维持家庭。越南早期在中国统治下，故其文化风俗都与中国很相似。不论宗教信仰，风俗习惯，端午节，中秋节，农历新年，清明节等等都和中国一样。

第一天

河内

我对越南国家是一片空白，因为我可不知道一个刚开放的共产党国家是怎么的社会。心理有一点好奇和期待会有什么特别的文化可以让我大开眼界。虽然在出发之前，我已经读过关于越南的书，毕竟阅读和经历是完全不一样。

一下飞机，我们就到immigration centre排队去登记，那些immigration centre工作人员的神态都很凶猛和不温和的态度对待游客。我心想也许这就是共产党的精神。一定要狠，一定要认真，不可笑。。。。。不好笑。。。。

当我们的司机从机场接了我们就载我们到我们的旅店在old quarter ( 旧区）。沿途上我都看着河内的风景。越南的建筑物都很特别，什么特别呢?那就是高高瘦瘦，就好像越南女子高高窕窕魔娜多姿。其实越南人和我们中国人没什么分别，分别就是语言，那就好像中国少数民族。在越南我觉得很难跟他们沟通，我们尝试用英语跟他们沟通真的有点对牛弹琴。但是我觉得很有挑战性因为我可以用手语（世界语言）来跟他们沟通。在沟通的过程，难免会产生一些笑话或一些误会，但是只要不会发生一些不愉快的事情那就是一件很难忘的经历。

河内是一个繁忙的都市，我觉得很不习惯当天抵达这里，因为河内给我感觉就是很乱。交通秩序可以在世界排名第一乱。除了乱还是乱。。。。sorry Hanoi i doesnt mean to hurt u .......... 的士司机告诉我假如他那辆车没有车笛（还是BM Honk ), 那就不可能上路。所以几乎所有的道路都是吵到不得了，那里的机车（motorbike)多到我看到都晕了。我觉得是给我在那里骑机车那我肯定是很大压力。。。。。。

第一天，真的有点不适应。。。。。

但是我们也有遇到好的东西那就是越南美食。越南的食物真的令我另眼相看我从没想过有这么美味，我只想到只要不会太过难入口那已经是很好了。因为经验告诉我不要太高的期望，期望越高失望越高。台湾就是我的经历。。。。。台湾故事迟点才告诉你。。。。可能是很饿的关系，那一家餐馆我们几乎每天都报到。。。。LAU 餐馆我在这里认真的告诉大家有机会一定要尝试他们的越南咖啡，河粉，LaKsi....... 我怀念的你的食物啊！！！。。。。。。

越南是一个产生艺术文化极高的地方。一个第三国家被法国和中国统治过，可以拥有如此的吸引了每年多达数万海内外的人士到越南来参观他们的美术。可以看得出越南是一个具有艺术价值和受到外界的肯定。我是觉得很惊讶的是看到他们很尊重他们的艺术行业，在河内有一条街是所有的艺术画家都开了他们的画廊。他们所展现出的是他们越南文化遗产和高雅的艺术给所有人看，越南人是不屈服于别人。。。。

下龙湾-世界遗产

2 天1 夜

价钱：USD109

有海上桂林之称的下龙湾是一个四外桃园的地方。我觉得没有人会反对因为它是一个宁静的海面没有海浪的声音，拥有大大小小的岛屿多达2000 座。所有的大大小小的岛屿所形成的一副副的美丽的画所产生在我们的眼前可以令你感觉到为什么这世上还有一片人间仙境。我们所乘坐的船是一艘木船。它并不是一艘普通的船它是一艘在海面上让你觉得好像你还在陆地上，我们的船带领我们穿过大大小小的岛屿，一阵阵的温软的风扑上你的面上仿佛在这时刻是你自己所拥有的没有什么东西可以比现在更relax..... 两岸猿声啼不住，轻舟已过万重山。。。。在这么诗情画意的地方，所有的烦恼和压力都暂时都一一抛到海里去。。。那USD109 真的是值得。。。值回门票。。。。如此的地方我真的是很难以忘记，到现在我也很怀念那时的心情和回忆。。。

TAM COC

有内陆下龙湾之称

价钱：50 USD

从河内到TAM COC大约要2 个小时的路程。同样的我们也是拿当地的DAY TOUR 一天游。50USD 可不是一个小数目。折回马币可要RM175，但是我们可知道在越南的消费是比泰国高很多，因为小弟刚从泰国回来。从我一个朋友在越南工作了一年多的打听下，为什么越南的消费哪么高？因为当地政治的制度和经济的约束下，据我们所了解和经历过在我们国家也正在面临的问题那就是贪污和腐败的当地政府。人民在重重的税务压力，警察的干扰（钱可以解决的问题Boleh Settle Kah Encik )和租金的问题之下，所以他们惟有将所有的压力转移到消费人的身上。回到TAM COC 之旅，TAMCOC 是一个很宁静的地方。我们抵达了目的地后，当地的导游就以英语跟我们讲解TAMCOC 的历史。TamCoc 的历史是从中国人抵达了越南和占领了越南而当上皇帝。我们参观了几间寺庙和以前皇帝的宫廷，然后就到一间脚车店租了脚踏车到TAMCOC里环游。我可以说在TAMCOC骑脚踏车是我有史以来有这么舒服和爽的感觉，因为当时的天气很好。有如温柔的风轻轻吹到你的身上和细雨纷纷打到我们的身上，那一种的情节就如发生在电影的剧情上所上映。那场难忘的回忆到现在都历历在目，除此之外我们的导游引导我们一起骑脚踏车到越南的小村庄里环绕和感受他们的生活。在这里我们所看到的越南人都是很朴素的，越南的小孩有的看到我们都很害羞或有的很活泼的跟我们打招呼。他们所露出的笑容都是很真的从心里所发出来的。。。我的内心也跟着笑了起来。。。这就是简单的心和简单的生活。。在这短短的一个小时半的与脚踏车的经历是我在TamCoc的美好回忆。

简单的旅程。。。。简单的心态。。。。丰收的人生的经验和经历=钱买不到。。。

每次旅游都有不一样的收获。。。并没有那个国家非常特别，只可以说她们都有个特色。。

Photo Marathon Asia Competition

2008-11-02T00:21:00.003+08:00

Theme 3 : Goes Green

Theme 2:Mess in Rules

Theme 1:Indulge Metropolitan

在一个空闲的星期六早上, 比平时还要早起床工作的我在六点正被蔡依林的歌声欢呼醒来了.一大早,我就赶到去berjaya times square 参加一年一度的Photo Marathon Asia Competition. 以为一大早没有人会像我得空没事做去参加比赛，但是抵达Times Square 门口我就吓了一跳。Oh my God ,么耶事这么甘多人呵？有金拾？有觉不去睡好像我这么傻吗？

我看那一条龙已近变成了U shape。What the hell is going on? 真的搞不清楚KL人真么闲空。我看应该千人都有9百人。当轮到我的登记的时候那已近8.30am。我接过工作人员给我一件colar Canon T-shirt, Canon 帽子，毛巾一条和一份丰富的早餐。由于我是Canon 代言人Simon Yam 的粉丝，所以是免费的。真的爽啊!一早就爽死了。

由于今天我是独行客有点寂寞难耐，所以就看看有谁是认识的，哈哈给我找到我的senior。我就跟他交谈，原来他也是一个人。那就自然而然的走在一起，那可不是拍拖别误会了。我的senior 是一个机佬而不是基佬。他一身的装扮我给60分，他的一身机扮可拿110分。因为他的所有的武器价值有十多千马币不是ThaiBaht。我跟着他一起一定是女孩所说的你一定有幸福啊。。。。。幸福我要的幸福一定满足。。。燕姿的歌咯。。。

一个嫩马跟一个老马一定有收益啦。。。小孩都知道。他就惨跟一个没有好料的人在一起。一定没有幸福。我的senior 带我去拍一些地方找灵感和角度。1st place .....茨厂街，MasjlisJamed，Kota Raya 和PuduRaya。。。。。走了好远了，有点累。。。我们都很吃力的去找Theme1 的题材，总于想到了。什么呢？給一罐CoCaCola 一位马来帅哥喝。。。。。叫他摆一个后现代主义的POSE 斯让我们为所欲为。哈哈搞掂！！！！

Theme 2 ：Mess in Rules

什么意思？违反的规条？咳！！whatever la......
去找苹果拍。万红一点绿。。。。See above picture no 2。我是觉得美啦。。。各画有各眼？

i have try my best, i wont regret anymore.....

其实也有遇到一些趣事例如给Giant 和Cold Storage 的保安人员赶。。。No Photo here .....

我们都知道这是他们的工作。Ah Sigh u did ur good job.... i respect u ....

还有我们到Borders 书店在times Square 看到一个蜜蜂黏着花儿。修辞法。。。形容一对男女在library 面对面抱着一起走，有轻轻的一吻对方的脸。哇真的頸啊！！！走宝了，没有拍到。。不然让大家看看。。。

Theme 3 ：Goes Green

在lake GARDEN 没有拍到什么特别的照，但是找到一间餐厅在旧火车站。在heritage hotel里的餐厅。没有人去的餐厅但是满有情调的，价钱又便宜。带女友是一个可以接受的地点。

到最后，我们回到berjaya Times Square 集合然后等成绩。9.15pm FinalResult release ... 00145 is not in the list .... u can send packing lor..... never mind 不赌不知时运高。。 see u in next year..

但是我今天很高兴因为哦。。。。我学了很多东西，但是不告诉你。。。晚安。。。。

My Friend Wedding

2008-10-27T00:55:00.006+08:00

合錦交杯- 一生一世- 百头偕老- 共度患难-一生承诺

I m standing between bride and bridegroom. I m still look

as handsome as Bridegroom.

Weather : No Rain

Date : 26/10/2008

Function: Jason Lau's Wedding Dinner

Venue : Seafood Restaurant in KL

Time : 7-10.30pm

This a few days, i was waiting my friend to send me the wedding invitation card as he promised before. Finally he called me to come over his house to collect it on wedding eve ( Saturday ). I was thinking whether he has sincere heart to invite me or he just want to simply spread the BomB to everyone to fulfill his places. After that, i was overcoming my thinking. I was thinking back we are in 6 years for primary school time.

When we were in primary school, we were used to be very close to each other. I alway visited his house during school time. We like cycling to the school when it was saturday. Those day i thinking back was 16-18 years ago. Hard to imagine time pass flying Jet, it could be happen in yesterday. Actually, i seldom contact primary school friends due to i took my secondary education far away from my house. Somemore those old day, where did we have TODAY SO CALL handphone/ PDA phone? Even when i was in Secondary school time, my house just install a telephone line.

I m so happy that these is one of my primary school friend we still in contact. Actually since we leave primary school, i think we have time for reunion is less than 5 times but maybe once a year we will contact each other to update information. As we know when you getting older, you will getting less time to spend with youe friends. Time may need go to Girl Friend, Company colleagues, Secondary school friends, business friends and others .......

Actually i also interested to attend Jason's Wedding because i would like to see my primary school friends. I hope to see back whether there is anyone of my primary school friends can meet up together. Before i attend the dinner, i know it is a little chance for me to see my primary school friends because Jason told me that he has invites a few number of Primary school Friends.

When the Clock pass 7 in evening, i have prepare myself for tonight function. I have brought my accompanion ( DSLR) to attend the dinner. Iknow if i was in bored, i can help JAson to snap shoot a few photos for future memory. Along the way to restaurant there is no traffic jam. Around 20 minutes i arrived the DESTINATION. Parking is limited there, i was turning around there and finally found a nice place to park. When i was reverse my car, there is pretty space for my car to go in. Suddenly my car signal alert me dont not to go further again. There is obstacter. Therefore i go down and look at the parking and there is very dark. i observe that is grass, i dont bother the signal alert me..... KRA...KRA...KRA sound come out with so weird that i hear and it is also i dont like to hear this kind of sound..... i move forward again... KRA... KRA... this time sound more terrible.. my heart going to drop down.. i think my BABY get hurted. Bumper Come out only No Big Deal ... Money can settle , but the problem i got short of money ..... So how ... Heart Breaking lor..... Spoil My Mood tonight ..... Haih... What to do ? Life still have to go on.....

I m still keeping my smiling face to enter the restaurant. Coz i know that is a fact my baby get hurted. I need to repair later. 风吹鸡蛋壳，财散人安乐。。。。When i entered the restaurant, i see a lot people couldnt find a seat for there because no body guide the guests to sit accordingly table. I was unlucky too, no one know where can i sit. Bridegroom was not around, so i take the opportunity to snap a few photos. Wisely spend on time..珍惜时间。。爱惜光阴。。。

finally my fren Jason appear and allocate me in a table that i know one of old friend but i have never chat with him. Nevermind i m busy body, i can survive coz i like to talk to people.

During whole night i help Jason to snap shoot a lot of photos. As i mentioned before, i wanna take a chance to look my primary school friends. Luckily, i can able to recognise a few faces but i got no chance to mix around with them due to they have many friends to chit chat. Due to the schedule for Jason dinner a bit not planning well. I just trying to help him to take a nice memory for tonight.

As a friend, i would like to wish Jason have a wonderful marriage. Keep more hardworking to give a new life come out.

Time to look back myself, i think i m not so young as before. I have to plan my future .... haha... As we grow older, the more commitment is more burden. Certain pressure is a force to push you to progress.... I like to see my friend have a wonderful family and life.....

Wishes: Hope all of us gain our life experience and live with happiness and enjoyable.

无助的老人

2008-10-25T19:18:00.003+08:00

晴天，星期六。节目就从下午两点三十分开始，与几位旨同道合的朋友由我的家里出发。一路上大家都在讨论要做些什么当我们到达了目的地。其实今天我们的目的地是一家老人院。这家老人院是一个非营利组织，大约有九年的历史。一共有48 位老人共住在同一个屋檐下。在我们启程这家老人院之前，我们就去准备我们的爱心物品给所有的老人家。负责人来先生告诉我们捐干粮更加实际，其实我们是无所谓的，只要我们可以帮助到社会上需要我们帮忙的人，我们已经很开心。回到之前我们爱心物品的话题，我们抵达了一家廉价百货市场疯狂的扫货。油，盐，米，糖，饼干，马令薯，成人尿片，老人麦片，和一些日常用品。两辆车子的后尾箱都已经满了，正所谓老师所说的满载而归，我们都可以用上场了。这家老人院的栖身之所就在义山里，在这片满目苍凉，令人伤感的地带。当我们到达了老人院，负责人来先生就来迎接我们。我们就开始拿我们爱心物品到二楼的小房子。老人院的规模不大，没有先进的设备，但是却是无数的老人的避风港。我们突然觉得人生的生老病死，生命的脆弱，更加知道在我们由生之年应该要做多一些事回馈社会。更加重要的是我们要珍惜身边的每一个人，不要等到失去后才来后悔。无助的老人需要我们的关心和帮助。。。。。愿所有的老人都安康和快乐。。。。

男人的心理矛盾

2008-10-24T00:17:00.003+08:00

男人不坏女人不爱。到底有多少人会赞成呢？但是不管有多少人赞同或反对，他依然的有存在的价值。时尚的男女都容易受快熟面的文化侵蚀，他们都认为人生要走最捷径，最轻松和最没有压力的路途往前走。但是往往是不以为，那条道路却是一条充满了危险与崎岖。到头来撞到头破血流。今天，放工后我和一帮死党在公司附近嘆回一口美味的WhiteCoffee Ice。但是一个星期至少都光临一次，那不是想念咖啡的味道而是因为想把自己一天的忙碌和烦恼性情一一放松下来。今天的话题是男人。是不是很抽象呢？有朋友提到到底男人去“滚”会不会对不起她的女友呢？或者他的未来女友呢？如果现在年轻不去“滚”那等到结了婚才来在外“偷吃”吗？有时候我自己也不方便去给于意见。我知道如果太过主观的看这话题，会觉得自己还没有经历过这些事情就下了判断。那是很不合理和对别人不公平。常常以为自己是圣人，那可能自己还没经历这些事情，所以我只好听听专家的意见和见解。偷吃論林良實是在跟記者開玩笑，很多高高在上的男人都有精力過剩問題，所以必須尋求管道發洩多余精力。嗨.............. 你看尊贵敦林医生也这样说。。。那你说根草阶级的我们会有什么想法？.........真的无法想像。。。。但愿大家身心自在。。

艺术与思考

2008-10-22T20:11:00.002+08:00

为什么鸟笼里没有小鸟？只是有几盏15watt而且不是菲利浦的牌子的灯泡。黑色的background，带出一丝的神秘的画面。到底这代表着什么意思？我还在寻找之中。但是在我的潜意识中，我觉得这是一个拥有附有艺术性的物体。也许我对这酒店的一切的装饰很好奇，所以特别注意一点一滴的装饰。也许也是一种缘份在这酒店度过一个难忘的晚上。我自己觉得一个人的艺术造诣可以往往将一些很平常的东西配合起来，然后两者之间所产生的化学作用而形成了一个附有一种高情操的艺术品，不一定贵的物品才能做成好的艺术品。正如一个人的品德的高低并不能用学历与身价来衡量，但是有谁会用反思维的想法去思考。

The 1st person u Meet in Trip

2008-10-22T19:47:00.003+08:00

The 1st person u Meet in your Trip is the Receptionist of the Hotel. The Friendly Smiling from the Receptionist of the Hotel. It will give a WaRm Feeling to the place and like a good friend welcome you to her house to short stay. The picture of the lady is a receptionist of guest house in Bangkok. Eventhough this is not a deluxe and high class hotel but from the receptionist excellent services, sweet smiling, polite and pretty. I can rate this guest house 80 Marks. I hope i can back to this guest house again if i come back to Bangkok. Last time i did promise to visit back to Taiwan again ... Haha .... Maybe i think one day ..... i will back again... Who know the next day where are you again? Atleast this is a target for you to achieve it later. I alway believe that if we WANT to do, we CAN Achieve it ....It is Depend to your determination..

旅行的感想

2008-10-20T23:31:00.004+08:00

旅行可以让我们心灵上找到人生的观点。在这繁忙的都市里生活，大家都寻找自己人生的目标。往往在寻找目标的片刻，自己却迷失方向。旅行给了我自己对人生有了一个平衡点。每当自己对某些事情很主观的时候，就马上就更自己想法和观点。渐渐的我觉得自己对生活的要求比以前不那么看的重，那并不代表自己对生活没有要求。只觉得自己在社会工作了两年和经历了一些事情之后，想法和处事都已经改变了。在这两年里，自助旅行走了几个国家的我，对于一些事情都已经放的下也没有那么执著。人也看开了，觉得人生都是美好的。

品酒

2008-10-20T22:33:00.004+08:00

品酒是对葡萄酒的一种感官评价，不仅仅包括酒的口感，还包括酒的香气、质地和色泽。品酒的主要目的是对葡萄酒品质作出评定，决定酒是否已经足够成熟得适合饮用，或者还需要更久的时间来陈年。
葡萄酒的芳香与味道正是它能够让我们更好地鉴赏的独特魅力。为评定一瓶葡萄酒的品质，品酒师必须评定酒的香气与口味的复杂程度，确定它们的结构成分是否均衡，比如酸度、丹宁和酒精浓度。而且最终要看酒的味道可以在入口后持续多久。
有经验的品酒师也会通过一些其他的方法来鉴定葡萄酒的品质。包括与同价格、地域或者年份的酒相比，它是否有更出众的品质；它是否具有其产地特有的典型口感，或者是偏离了这种特有的口感；它是否运用了其他的葡萄酒酿造技术，比如木桶发酵或者苹果乳酸发酵；它是否有明显的缺憾。
很多专业的品酒师，比如斟酒师或零售商买主，都会去寻找葡萄酒最能令消费者悦人心意的特性，或者可以预示一个好的卖点或恰好成熟的葡萄酒。
我们舌头的特定部位包含很多味蕾，这些味蕾对于味道的感觉非常的敏感。所以，要想更好的享受葡萄酒的味道，我们应该慢慢的品尝每一小口葡萄酒，在咽下之前让酒在整个舌间滚动。这样可以让各种味道最佳的融合在一起，使您的味蕾可以同时感觉到酒中酸、甜、苦，每一种味道微妙的痕迹，从而充分的享受到酒品所带来的满足感。嗅觉与味觉
当你重感冒的时候，你有过拼命去品尝食物或者饮料的经历吗？也许你只能品尝的一丁点儿，或者根本就完全失去了味觉。研究显示，我们味觉的70% 至75%都是来自与我们的嗅觉。特别是鼻子中的“芳香”神经能分辨出比甜、酸、苦和咸更细微的味道。品酒中，嗅觉与味觉是紧密结合的。如果失去了嗅觉，你将无法感觉到葡萄酒中巧克力、香草以及烟熏的微妙所在。
品酒技巧
鉴赏葡萄酒本身是一种艺术。因为它是一种自然的主观评价，葡萄酒鉴赏家们通常会根据一些常规来鉴别葡萄酒。学习品酒的技巧其实非常简单，如果你已经感受到了葡萄酒魅力，学习如何鉴别酒中的细微差别将会帮助你更好的鉴赏您珍藏的美酒。
品酒的基本步骤是：看、闻、品。
看你可以简单的从酒的外观看出很多东西。葡萄酒应该被倒入洁净的酒杯中，放在白色的背景前（比如桌布或者一张白纸也可以），或者面对着灯光让你可以清楚地鉴别到酒的颜色。
即使是同一种葡萄酒，酒的颜色也会差别很大。比如，白葡萄酒事实上并不是白色，可能是绿色到黄色到棕色的某一种颜色。白葡萄酒浓重的色彩通常意味着更浓郁的味道和酒龄，虽然棕色可能意味着酒的劣质。时间可以提高红葡萄酒的质量，但会降低大多白葡萄酒的质量。红葡萄酒不仅仅是红色，它们可能是从玫瑰色到深棕色，通常随着时间颜色会越来越浅。
边缘颜色你可以通过红葡萄酒的边缘颜色来猜测出酒的年龄。把酒杯略微的倾斜，看一下酒的边缘。紫色可能意味着一瓶年轻的酒，而橙色到棕色表示是成熟的酒。
漩涡虽然人们总是武断的说摇动酒杯让酒在杯中打旋是没有必要的，而且是自命不凡的行为，但事实上这种看上去多余的行为是有目的的。从视觉上，打转的葡萄酒可以让你观察到酒体。挂杯的余纹可能意味着更粘稠的酒体和更高的酒精度，或者甜度。
闻摇晃葡萄酒可以分散酒中的分子微粒，让你闻到酒的芳香气味，也就是我们说的酒香。以下是两种品酒师惯用的技巧：
先迅速的抿一小口，感觉一下第一印象，然后深深的喝一大口。
只喝一大口。
无论哪一种方式，在你闻了酒之后，慢慢坐下然后仔细去体会它的芳香。这个时候，你要专注在你所闻到的酒香，却不要着急去品尝葡萄酒。也许当你只是业余的葡萄酒鉴赏家的时候，你很难用语言去描绘它，但当你试了很多酒之后，你便可以鉴别出不同酒的相同之处和不同之处了。有时候，一种非常强的气味可能掩盖其他暗含的气味，你需要时间去练习。标注一种芳香可能会帮助你记住它。你可能甚至需要笔记本来记下你对它的印象。
品葡萄酒最重要的一个品质特性是它的酸性和甜度的平衡度。要想充分品味葡萄酒，请按照以下三个步骤。
初品：这时葡萄酒唤醒你的感觉（你的味蕾对于味道做出反应）。
品：带着嗖嗖声让酒在你的口中转动，同时慢慢吸气（虽然这时候你可能在你的朋友面前显得有点滑稽）。鉴别酒体本身的质地是浓厚还是轻薄，是爽滑还是粗糙？
余韵：在你咽下酒之后它在你口中余留的味道。这种余味能够保留多久？这种余味令人愉悦吗？复杂吗？和谐吗？
品酒之后，花点时间来评估一下酒的整体味道和平衡度。很多严肃的葡萄酒鉴赏家会根据一个评分系统给酒打分。虽然这种方法可以使用，但硬要把优质葡萄酒屈属于这些标准下是很难也是没有必要的。培养品酒的技巧是需要时间的，品得越多，你便越容易成为一名经验丰富的品酒大师。